Speed Dating for Christians

“Be ye not unequally yoked together with unbelievers.” Corinthians II Chapter 6:14. This passage contains the very reason why many dating services, both online and offline, cater exclusively to Christians. Among the many Christian dating services available is speed dating. What exactly is speed dating and what does it have to do with your faith?

Speed dating is an activity that allows you to mingle with members of the opposite sex for a few minutes – just enough to “break the ice”. Equal members of both sexes attend, and you get to spend 5 to 10 minutes talking to one person before you move on to the next.

At the end of the activity, if you find someone you might like to spend more time with, and it turns out that they like you too, the speed dating service matches you up and you can start spending more time together. It all sounds too non-committal and fast, right? Especially if you’re a Christian. So what are the advantages of trying Christian speed dating services?

The Christian speed dating services prioritize your faith. If you find the right Christian speed dating service, you’ll notice that they truly believe that Christians should marry other Christians. This makes them protective of the people who participate in their events, knowing that they value their faith. Also, they help you feel more comfortable, easing you into the speed dating process.

It makes networking with other Christians much easier. You might not necessarily find a future wife or husband through these speed dating events, but they will help you get in touch with single Christians from other churches. Who knows? You might find a new friend, contact, or even someone who can introduce you to a potential spouse. After all, finding single Christians within your church may be a bit difficult, especially since there’s a big chance your community will be eyeing your every move (churches do feel like one big family sometimes).

It’s a fun, learning experience. Whether you find someone you like or not, speed dating can be a learning experience. You might be able to learn more about what types of singles are available, as well as what you are truly looking for in a relationship. It’s also a good way to learn how to communicate with the opposite sex, especially if you’re the shy type.

Speed dating can be a fun activity for Christians, especially if you pray about your experiences and let God lead the way.